Your guide from Single to Married
They told you to get married.
But no one ever taught us how to:
- Choose with clarity and wisdom
- Speak with courage and conviction
- Stay connected through life’s ups and downs
- Build a love that pleases Allah ﷻ
Friends are getting engaged, parents rave about “perfect matches,” and the well-meaning aunties can’t stop asking why you’re still single.
The result?
Mixed signals. Endless breaks from the marriage search. Hope…then heartbreak. All because no one ever taught you to relate with purpose.
You mastered university and the open road, yet you never learned to:
- Read true compatibility,
- Nurture a spark into a lifelong bond,
- Ask the right questions at the right time.
So you wing it:
- Polite DM conversations,
- Cautious marriage meetings,
- The dreaded “Where is this going?” talk.
Why Traditional Advice Falls Short
Islamic lectures focus on marriage’s virtues but few deliver a practical, step-by-step roadmap.Add cultural myths and online noise, and many single Muslims end up feeling:
- Anxious about approaching someone, meeting families, or making a decision,
- Uncertain of what’s truly halal vs. haram, slipping into avoidable sins that erode barakah,
- Frustrated by vague guidance—“just find a good brother/sister”—with no criteria or strategy.
The cost is real:
- 1 in 5 Muslim marriages worldwide end in divorce.
- Without a plan, we waste months on incompatible prospects, miss red flags, and neglect our own spiritual, emotional, and physical needs.
Ask Yourself
- What does “good enough” mean to you? Career and manners aren’t enough—“perfect” looks different for every heart.
- What’s your strategy? Knowing which questions to ask—and when—keeps you laser-focused and protects your heart.
If you answered “no” to any of these, it’s no wonder your search feels confusing. Theory without action leaves you stuck.
Two Days. One Blueprint.
Where evidence-based psychology meets timeless Islamic guidance, empowering you to:
Find • Connect • Keep
Move from singlehood to a steady, sakīnah-filled marriage that brings peace to your life and barakah to your future.
Turn “In shā’ Allāh, maybe” into “Al-ḥamdu li-llāh, we got married.”
FIND
Readiness & Direction
Know where to look—and how to spot who’s truly ready for marriage. Save your time, energy, and heart.Define your “good enough” and attract compatibility, not just chemistry.
Your search for a spouse isn’t a failure—it’s a gap in skills.
And skills can be learned.
Now is your time.
CONNECT
Compatibility & Communication
Learn the skills to discern true compatibility and express your needs and values with clarity, confidence, and calm.Ask the right questions, set boundaries, and build deep emotional safety.
Ask the right questions, set boundaries, and build deep emotional safety.
KEEP
Relational Growth
Learn how to grow from me, myself, and I to you, me, and we.Build a healthy, happy marriage filled with mawaddah wa rahmah—the love and mercy Allah places between two hearts.
Is this for you?
Absolutely if you’re a brother or sister who…
- Wants nikāḥ, not guesswork. Apps, socials, and auntie intros have left many of us drained
- Craves a faith-anchored roadmap. No more vague advice—just proven tools rooted in Qur’an, Sunnah, and psychology.
- Is ready to break old patterns. You’ll roll up your sleeves, do the inner work, and lead with integrity.
- Believes love should honour both heart and dīn. You’re seeking sakīnah, not just a ceremony.
It’s probably not for you if…
- You want change without applying what you learn.
- You prefer to wait for things to happen
- You’re not prepared to own your choices in love and marriage.
If clarity, courage, and sincere niyyah describe your next step, this weekend is your launchpad to a lasting, barakah-filled marriage—in shāʾ Allāh.
It’s Not a Failure.
You’re not too late.
You just haven’t been taught the skills—until now.You’ve prayed istikhārah.
You’ve downloaded the apps.
You’ve sat through awkward marriage events, family intros and given the benefit of the doubt—again and again.But what you haven’t been given is a clear, faith‑aligned method for building a relationship that can carry you from nikāḥ to Jannah.
“I thought something was wrong with me. It turns out I was missing a strategy, not a blessing.”
— Saeed, Blueprint graduate
The pattern you’re done repeating:
- Talking stages that fade into silence
- Conversations that feel like interviews—not connection
- Chemistry without commitment
- Ghosting after “deep” conversations
- Settling for someone “on paper” while your heart stays silent
- Constant overthinking—“Was I too much… or not enough?”
- Hope today, heartbreak tomorrow
- Feeling like it’s working—for them, never for you
If that list hits home...
this is the Blueprint you were never given.Now it’s in your hands.
Designed for you. Built to change everything.
Meet Your Guide
Wajeeha Amin
Registered Psychotherapist (BACP & NCPS) · Relationship Coach
Known to her clients as “The Fairy Godmother"With over 15 years of experience helping Muslim singles and couples move from confusion to commitment, Wajeeha blends evidence-based psychology with timeless Islamic wisdom.
She transforms what often feels overwhelming—ghosting, guessing, or second-guessing—into clear, step-by-step tools that don’t just help you secure a marriage, but sustain it.
After witnessing how unhealthy marriages were shaping the next generation’s understanding of love, Wajeeha went deep into study, research, and clinical practice.
The result?
The Single to Married Blueprint—a proven, repeatable framework that equips Muslims with the relational skills to build the kind of healthy, faith-rooted love that future generations can look up to.Delivered across the UK, this intensive has helped many graduates go on to get married—with clarity, confidence, and niyyah.
Why graduates call her the “Fairy Godmother”
- “Wajeeha spotted the patterns I’d repeated for a decade and handed me the blueprint to break them—at last.”
- “She taught me how to find the right spouse—and how to keep love flourishing after the wedding.”
With Wajeeha, you don’t get vague advice or ivory-tower theory.
You gain a coach who has already helped hundreds move from single status to signed nikāḥ contracts—with clarity, confidence, and faith intact.
Designed for Men & Women Serious About Marriage
If you’re ready to stop guessing and start leading with clarity this is for you.
Whether you’re just beginning or ready to try again with wisdom, this two-day immersive experience will show you how to pursue nikāḥ with intention, confidence, and tawakkul.🗓 Dates: Saturday 12 & Sunday 13 July 2025
⏰ Time: 10 AM – 4 PM (includes lunch, refreshments, and all course materials)
📍 Venue: Heaton Mount, Bradford — a peaceful 19th-century manor surrounded by tranquil gardens. Ample onsite parking.
👥 Cohort Size: Intimate group for deeper connection and real conversations.🤍 The Niyyah That Changes Everything
A quiet decision. A sacred step.
The kind of niyyah that brings barakah—and builds a marriage that lasts.Early bird: £399
Book after 12th June: £499
VIP Experience (includes bonus coaching + follow-up call): £599Please note: this event is strictly in person at Heaton Mount, Bradford—no online access or live streaming is provided. The listed fee applies only to the Bradford venue; the fee for the London event will be higher.
Real Transformations
Hear from those who attended the Single to Married Blueprint
I remember seeing a post for the Single to Married Blueprint on Instagram. I was intrigued but missed out on the first one I wanted to attend. As soon as the next date was released, I booked straight away—and I’m so glad I did.”
Every minute of the experience made me reflect on how I’d been approaching my search. I left with clarity, tools, and a completely new mindset. I put everything into action immediately.
Booking the VIP package made a huge difference. When I hit my first dilemma, I had Wajeeha’s support—someone who truly understood what I was navigating.
One year later, I got engaged.
— Blueprint Graduate, 2024
I attended the Blueprint because my sister sent me the details. At first, I wasn’t sure if it was for men—but after speaking with Wajeeha, she completely put my mind at ease.
It was eye-opening to hear the sisters' perspectives and the challenges they face. At the same time, I was able to share from a male perspective—which made the space feel balanced and honest.
I left with practical strategies, tools, and extra resources that made a real difference. I put everything into practice and soon after matched with a sister online.
Now, I’m having better, deeper conversations than I ever have before—and I’m raising important topics early, with clarity and confidence.
— Blueprint Graduate (Male), 2024
“I attended the Blueprint twice. The first time, I was in shock—why had no one taught me this before? I was overwhelmed by how much I had to unlearn and where to even begin applying it all.”
When I saw new dates announced, I reached out to Wajeeha to ask if it was worth attending again. She took the time to speak with me, and after that conversation, I knew I had to go back.
The second time, everything clicked. I was fully engaged—not angry, but excited. I applied what I learned with intention and clarity.
Alhamdulillāh, I got married.
— Blueprint Graduate, 2024
